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Five ways to overcome conflict with a co-parent

On Behalf of | Mar 2, 2022 | Divorce |

Getting through a divorce can be a considerable challenge, but it is not the last family matter you will need to address. Coparenting can be a major struggle for separated parents, but it should be prioritized for the children’s sake. Too many conflicts with your former spouse can create any number of problems for your kids. To help you and your children, here are five effective strategies in overcoming co-parenting conflicts:

Put your children first

When parents have a disagreement over how to raise their kids or any other parenting decision, the disagreement can become rather heated. Sometimes, the best solution comes from putting your kids’ needs first. It can be easy to miss this kind of solution, so be sure to take a moment in any disagreement to consider how your goal will affect your kids.

Let go of the past

No matter how bad your separation was with your ex-spouse, holding on to it will not benefit your children or your relationship as a co-parent. Do your best to make sure that you do not bring up the past in your conflicts, as it will only produce more problems.

Do not make assumptions

Assumptions and miscommunication are like gasoline on the fires of co-parenting. Instead of starting or entertaining an argument because of some bad assumptions, take a moment to clarify things with your ex and make sure you both properly understand one another.

Manage your tone when communicating

Controlling your tone during conversations with your ex-spouse is critical for promoting communication. Even if you have good intentions in the conversation, having a condescending or mocking tone will completely undercut any efforts you are trying to make.

Keep calm

Despite all the effort you put into promoting co-parenting, it can be demoralizing when your ex-spouse is not attempting to meet you halfway in co-parenting. Instead of letting your emotions get the better of you, keep a calm composure and focus on pursuing what is best for your children.

Do not give up on co-parenting

Despite how hard it may be to pursue a good co-parenting relationship, it is necessary to do what is right for your children. Coparenting is not always easy, but it is achievable. Make sure you are doing everything possible to promote co-parenting in your life after divorce.