Deciding how you will share time with your children after divorce is never easy. Aside from the financial and logistical aspects at play, there are considerable emotional factors involved.
One thing you may consider is asking your child where they want to live. Yet, this might not always be best.
At what age can children decide where they want to live after divorce?
There is no set age at which an Illinois judge will allow a child a say in which parent has custody of them. State code says that when considering physical custody, a court must consider: “The wishes of the child, taking into account the child's maturity and ability to express reasoned and independent preferences as to decision making.”
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